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Ex won't let my new partner come to my house.

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fozzerelli365 · 02/12/2015 13:07

My ex-husband moved out 18 months ago and our divorce is going through. We both have new partners who we have introduced our 2 children to gradually and they get on with them well. My ex rents a house locally and sees the children regularly, the problem is he won't let my new partner to my house because he still owns it and doesn't want another man there. Both our names are on the mortgage but he says I need to buy him out (which I can't afford to do) or sell up then I can do what I like. My new partner & I have respected his wishes up to now but I'm getting increasingly fed up with not being able to move on. I plan to sell the house in the new year which I don't really want to do yet but I'm fed up with being controlled like this. Friends have said I should ignore my ex's demands but new partner does not feel comfortable in my house knowing how ex feels. Has anyone else experienced this?

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Dinkiedoo · 03/12/2015 11:29

why are you letting him dictate to you ? Its got stuff all to do with him who you have in your house !

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