My partner and i have had a pretty rocky time as a couple. We have 2 kids - ds is 2.10 and dd is 5 months. But we have gone to relate and just kept going. I'm always tired, baby is a poor sleeper. My partner is fairly quiet, on the computer alot. Never bothered me, i like the peace and quiet.
Today i read his myspace page, out of interest. (He posts his own music tracks there). i came across a rather enthusiastic 16 year old who is 'really feeling his beats'. She has written to him a few times. On the last post she had put some kisses. i read her myspace page and he had previously suggested a collaboration with her and told her how when she was 20 she'd be a great producer. (They both produce their own music on the pc).
This comes at a time when i feel old, tired and stressed. He has often said we have nothing in common, which is true, i mean not like sports or hobbies. However in his defence, he is generous, gets up with our ds every day to do his brekkie, great at the` weekends and can be very loving.
I do feel insecure about this girl, maybe because both my dad and his dad met their second wives when they were in their forties, and the girls in their mid teens. And there are no pics of me or the kids on his page. He says its not the done thing on the music site.
Am i overreacting?