Last night I went out with some friends and didnt get in until 2am, this was sorted out with DP first so everything was fine there. When I got in he was laid on the bed writing with the light on, I said hello etc and he started asking where I'd been, everytime i named a place he said he knew full well it wasnt open on Sunday nights etc as if I was lying, in the end I just said whatever and told him I wanted to go to bed so could he either stop writing or write in the living room so I could turn the lights off, he said "no, I'm busy" so I got annoyed and turned off the light, he went crazy and thew the lamp across the room and his pen etc and then flew for me shouting in my face etc, I went into the living room to get away from him and he kept following me shouting in my face, he then said he was keeping the light on all night and I would have to sleep on the couch , so I did. He later aplogised for scaring me but I can't work out whether he was in the wrong for being so OTT about it or was I for turning off the light whilst he was writing. I'm so sick of walking on egg shells with him