feeling so down:(

[Katieemilyxo]

Just don't know what to do I see my boyfriend every weekend with our son he doesn't help with are son at all I do it all by myself he tells me he never wanted him I kept him so he's my responsibly so I never get a break lucky to have such a amazing mum who's always helping me I'm so upset as I love him so much but he doesn't care about are son saids he never wanted him and never will it's so hard being in love with someone who doesn't love or care for there own son makes me so depressed as I'm the only parent doing anything just so lost sometimes he helps If I go on at him but thats only to shut me up I feel so down about the situation just don't know what to do anymore

Sorry you can not just be mature because someone said so, maturity comes with age and experience Did you choose to be a dad, I think not. He cannot even get a job at his age

He was 16

Not much different though

No, not much and this is precisely the reason why children should not be having children and should, instead, be getting on with the business of becoming grown ups.

Sadly so FolkGirl, 15 and fathering a child
OP you're in love with an unrealistic image; he might perhaps 'love' you but he's far too immature to step up and take responsibility for his child, he isn't going to suddenly turn into a brilliant father and quite frankly you'd be better off focusing on your little boy and planning your future because boyfriend certainly isn't going to suddenly change into super dad imo.

Where no longer together I'm concentrating on my little boy Im not bothering with that immature boy no longer me and my son deserve better