Translator1000 Well probably it is and one thinks if you "can't stand the heat";! the doors thataway------>
But its something people want to discuss and know about, it isn't the sort of thing that you perhaps can discuss with people you know but here in an anonymous place, maybe you ought to?
I've been out of the dating game for a very long time and its very useful to see what is or is not expected these days. I have the opinion that if a woman were to impress me, and vice versa, that I was considering her as a long term partner then DTD wouldn't be a number one initial aspect of a relationship. I'd like to check out a lot of other things first to see if we are compatible have shared interests, can tolerate each other, have the same or similar attitudes to money life and all those other aspects that come into a relationship.
An then Sex, yes that is important but now I'm that much older its not as important to me as it once was. i don't need to be at it all the time, once a week or fortnight would be fine for me it's the "intimacy" and "warmth" that's really important.
That said it does seem very strange that your in a bed together and I'd have thought that if she invited you there or suggested that then she'd expect some sort of sexual advance or event to take place?
It may well be that the man involved is somewhat asexual or just not that interested?
Unless I'm very much mistaken. And no AF a stiffly doesn't mean much other than that I'm well, "interested" :)