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DP Gone out AGAIN! Grrr

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bellarosa · 08/12/2006 22:16

For the 4th friday night in a row! Feeling abit pissed off!

One day I'd quite like to mention during dinner (cooked by him) that i'm off out in half an hr, you dont mind do you? should be back 4am-ish, so you'll have to get the dc's up, you dont mind do you? and your ok putting them to bed tonight arent you? (dc's are 21mnths and 4mnths so it's a bit of a juggling act on own!)

am i an unreasonable old cow?

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Tortington · 08/12/2006 22:16

he sounds like a cock

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bellarosa · 08/12/2006 22:17

couldnt agree more at the mo!

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marymillington · 08/12/2006 22:17

well, why don't you?

rachfran · 08/12/2006 22:19

You are not unreasonable old cow at all.
Has it always been like this?

Carmenere · 08/12/2006 22:20

Definitely time for a bit of revenge imo. Organise to go shopping without the kids all day tommorow and then go out tommorow night too.

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bellarosa · 08/12/2006 22:22

i wish i had the energy!
it's the knowing that you have to get up in the morning no
matter what time you went to bed that puts me off!

but i think i'll ring the girls tomorrow and bugger off to the pub 6ish just in time to leave him to do the tea, the baths and the bedtime juggling routine!... anyone in manchester up for a mums on the run night out?

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controlfreakyturkeyandstuffing · 08/12/2006 22:23

you really should you know. dont let him take your good nature so for granted.

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bellarosa · 08/12/2006 22:25

Was not always like this, more so now we've got two dd's.
think it's his escape, but abit unthinking sometimes, never says
'do you fancy night off' etc

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bellarosa · 08/12/2006 22:28

but then again i get to go on mn without him moaning at me about talking to all those i quote "bloody feminists"!

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controlfreakyturkeyandstuffing · 08/12/2006 22:29

cheek! tell him thios bloody feminists pretty underwhelmed by his behaviour.

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bellarosa · 08/12/2006 22:38

Will do!

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maltesers · 12/12/2006 14:31

No you are not unreasonable. With babies of that age think staying out till very late and leaving you on own is not good or fair. Got very fed up with my ex who was always down the pub and stuff. Left him in July when he got violent!

maltesers · 12/12/2006 14:33

Bellarosa if i was in Manchester i would come out. Im a single mum and support you 1000%.

Tortington · 12/12/2006 14:34

feminist - cheeky fucker - i am not a feminist.

equality for all to get pissed down pub says i.

maltesers · 12/12/2006 14:35

Dont let him take advantage of you. I let my ex do that and it gets you nowhere but a doormat. ! stick up for your self and organise to go out with the girls, have a flirt and let your hair down. Bet thats what he does.

sunnysideup · 12/12/2006 15:58

no you're not being unreasonable.

Can't see why you don't just talk to him and arrange something that you're happy with, whether it's you going out alternate Fridays or whatever?

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