Hi-hope you are all having a good day. I posted a few times about a new male friend whom I met abroad who I probably would be going out with now were it not for the fact he lives in Ireland and I here. We've got to know each other pretty well now and had a few mutual visits, although we've never stayed over in the same house iyswim. We are always talking about everything on the phone (he loves to talk) and of course discuss where we want our friendship to go, whether we could or should live closer to each other in the future. In some ways it is the slowest developing relationship/friendship I have ever known, in a good way. I really enjoy visiting Ireland and have by now got quite a few friends there, that I met in different ways. My next visit is imminent. I kind of get the feeling he would like me to stay over in his house (separate rooms would be fine by him and he is a total gent, but he has "arranged" for me to stay in his friend's house locally which is vacant. He probably thinks that I would be scared or something if he suggested staying with him, which I wouldn't. I want to in fact. But I don't really feel comfortable saying so myself. Not much of a dilemma I know compared to some peoples, but thought Id see what you all thought.