Suspect being lied to!!!

[Stranger80]

I need some advice guys as I'm going off my head. Name changed for obvious reasons.

I received an email a week ago from my h's ex who took delight in informing me that she has been in regular contact with my h.

The ex is based in a different country and she apparently flew over to spend time with my h. The email she sent, was an email she sent to my h, where she wrote to h a year ago about how disappointed she was that my h didn't leave me for her. She narrated all the conversations she's had with my h about how my h told her he didn't love me and he only got together with me to get her attention etc

The email is pages and pages and I'll go on all night.

Now, my h has denied everything she has said, but something doesn't feel right. He has been acting very guilty since I told him even though he is insisting the girl is just causing trouble. I haven't relied but I am soo tempted as she really insulted me in the email. I need to move on from it but something doesn't feel right. Should I reply back, I even have recordings of my h refuting everything she says. Should I send the recordings?...How can I move on from this? Do I reply back?......my h and I have been together for 6 years, and I somehow don't believe this girl is still interested without some encouragement from my h, what do I do? So sorry....not sure this all makes sense but desperately wanted to overload.

Bump

Has he had opportunities to see this woman? I mean, does he go away for work on a regular basis? Nights out?

Don't communicate any further with her, it's pointless.

I would probably go deep into your H's PC, phone, laptop or whatever - check internet history and saved passwords for secret email accounts, facebook, twitter if he uses it, whatever. Unfortunately as the suspected OW has tipped your hand, he may well have done a clean-up job already. But unless he's an IT professional, he'll have left traces somewhere.

The only thing I'd say is that if the OW had an email or text from him saying "no i don't love stranger she's horrible, you're the one I really want, that's why I'm still living with stranger after 6 years, it's just to make you jealous!" then why wouldn't she have sent it? All she's actually sent is proof that she's after him, not the other way round. And hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

Thank you guys.

He doesn't travel at all, we go on holidays together and for him its work and back home, hardly any socialising apart from the odd get together with work colleagues.