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He says he doesn't trust me completely

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Cheeseburgler · 11/11/2015 18:44

Basically he says I don't always tell him things on purpose.

Last thing was a sexual dream I had (me masturbating in the dream) which I only told him today about. The dream had occurred before last weekend.
These things he talks about that I didn't tell him are all things that I ended up telling him anyway. They weren't things he found out on his own. He got to know because I told him in the end. If I had meant for him to never know, he wouldn't know.

Anyway, he says he can't trust me completely because he thinks I might hide stuff so as not to upset him.

How do I tackle this?

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MrsTerryPratchett · 11/11/2015 21:20

That sounds really very worryingly possessive. I would be extremely careful. And single.

Twinklestein · 11/11/2015 21:23

This started badly, he's never going to trust you completely because of it.

I would give up now tbh.

Muckogy · 11/11/2015 21:23

Bin.

OTheHugeManatee · 11/11/2015 21:29

You don't sound well suited. He wants to control your thoughts and you want privacy. It will never get more relaxed. Cut your losses and find someone else.

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