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WillIeverlearn · 11/11/2015 12:21

I met this guy who's completely played me, and I really want to send him a text, I'm not going to because I don't want him to have the satisfaction..but I thought if I share it here at least my 'frustration' and annoyance with myself might dissolve just a bit. Sorry if it's a bit of a ramble, and please feel free to tell me how stupid I was falling for his pathetic lines! Angry

You asked me to analyse you, so I will now. You are not unique as you think you are, you're an emotional fucktard. You need constant validation that what you're doing is okay and what you've done is right or really good. If you don't get it you appear to either sulk, or get down.

You are also very manipulative, you don't stop until you get what you want, and you are aware of this too, using whatever means you can. You're a Jekyll and Hyde character. Vulnerable to your own needs but with no care for others needs. In a nutshell, not a nice person, and very miserable.

I'm not sure if you have the potential to be fun or not, I hadn't work that out, what I did know is that you knew nothing personal about me ( my choice) because I think I knew deep down what you were going to do, but stupidly I went along with it, which as a grown adult I chose to do. There's always good and bad people..you're just not a good one.. Oh, and as for the validation...you were Crap..genuinely!

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Helmetbymidnight · 13/11/2015 13:53

I think its great to practise what you would say - v. cathatrtic - , however, its crazy to send such stuff.

I see it all the time on Mumsnet, people sending long, impassioned emails/messages to people who don't give a shit about them.

The ONLY message this sends is: I think about you constantly, for hours a day, every night, you are always on my mind.

Far better to just not bother, or a brief one-liner what dearfox said, or a 'Whatever' or a 'lol' or a 'fuck off'.

Allbymyselfagain · 13/11/2015 14:03

All done because he "loved me so much" scarlett. I'm a little kinky and he threatened to tell everyone, including tracking down colleagues and customers of mine to tell them what I was into, share videos he had taken of me and some topless photos id sent him. I have been put off men for life.

"Dead eyed soulless husk"Grin that's going in the insult bank!

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