"The best sex you've ever had" - is it with your OH?

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..I don't think that the sex me and OH have is the best he's ever had. I think the odds are stacked against me really, he's 41 and had quite a few more partners than me.
I'm different in that I don't tend to remember one night stands, only sex I've had with long term partners, and I can't really remember the moments properly or any details specifically.
Think it stems from a while ago when oh mentioned a sexual experience he had with a stranger in a public place. I assumed this was his "best ever" experience, given that he'd told me about it, and it made me feel a bit well, jealous, insecure almost.. But recently I mentioned it in a jokey way, and he said it wasn't a great experience after all. Didn't know what to believe!
I've never had a thrilling or risky experience like that.. So maybe I feel a bit left out.
So, are you the best your current oh has ever had? Do you know you are? Is he yours? If you're not, how does it make you feel? Are you accepting that you may not be, or does it hurt a bit..? I suppose my oh is the "one" and I want to feel like I'm the best to him.. But perhaps I'm being childish :-/ got to stay away from those romantic movies....!

I know I am my DH best ev because I'm his only one but he is also my best ever. The longer we've been together the better it gets. We've only had sex 2 times in the past 5 months as I'm pg and I've had bleeding (even more after sex). Haven't bled for a while and I woke up the other night to find him awake and ready. It was fantastic. I think because we know each other's bodies and we love each other that adds to it.

Without doubt sex with my DW is the best we have both ever had.
Both of us have had multipul partners in the past too

I find it really hard to define "best sex".

I've had mind-blowing, boundary-pushing, fabulous sex, which took my body and my head to another dimension (and took several days of recovery!). So "great sex".

But it didn't have those special moments that only happen when being intimate with someone who you have an emotional/spiritual connection to. That is when the truly "great sex" happens.

Definitely not.

No way.

yes he is by a million miles. Im pretty sure its one of the main things that has kept us together sometimes. Even when everythng around us has been shit, weve always had that. Keeps us going through the bad times, and is extra special in the good times

"Best" is really difficult to define. My sex-drive has fluctuated so dramatically over the last decade and I am not as structurally sound as I used to be! I was an incredibly sexual person in my 20s and early 30s, but sometimes I struggle to respond in any way.

I had an emotionally retarded relationship with a complete shit, but the sex was the most amazing experience. We did things that I have never managed to replicate with anyone else and pushed boundaries that I have never felt wild and wanton enough to approach again since. We were emotionally fucked up but both admitted to other people that the sex was in an entirely different league to anything that had gone before.

DH is truly wonderful and I am entirely physically comfortable with him, the sex is wonderful and deeply connected but I also know that if I ventured into the darker enclaves of my sexuality his first thought would be "where did she learn this". His insecurity over my rather adventurous past does resurface on occasion, especially when my drive plummets. I do wish that I could return to feeling as sexually powerful as I have in the past.

Yes

No. Though he's ex-DP, and mainly for that reason.

He was very squeamish about womens bodies (once made some dodgy remarks about how only mid teen girls bodies were genuinely attractive to men - I should have dumped him there and then, the perv), and always ran off to wash his willy immediately afterwards. You might have expected his hygiene standards to be as high on his end. Nope. His balls always smelled weirdly like bouillabaisse...

Eugh- I'm not going to be able to get bouillabaisse out of my head now! I bet you never order that in a restaurant Moriarty!

I read an interview with Bjork once when she said that she had been alone for 9 out of 10 of her most amazing orgasms. I'm kinda with her on that, but I would definitely opt for that tenth one.

Oh yeah! I thought I'd had some pretty good sex until I met my DP. He's always done things in the way I love sexually without me having to tell him. He is so passionate, masterful and loves pleasing me. He thinks I'm the best he's had too. We're very intimate with each other and the connection when you love each other makes it extra special too. Kinda guess we are very in tune with each other.

Since I have had 1 sexual partner, then yes dh is the best and only sex I have had.

battleships to have sex twice in 5 months is very worrying. piperisterrys it's such a shame to only have one sexual partner as it gives you no comparison. My ExH was my first and I thought our sex life was ok. Now I am (after lots of men) in another marriage and the sex is on a totally different level (ie. bloody fab).