I'm not looking for advice as such, I know i shouldn't make contact with him, try to have fun etc but this is so unbelievably difficult.
So my DP decided to tell me last week that he's not happy in our relationship and so has broken up with me. His reasoning was that he still loves me but feels I give him so much more than he gives me and he doesn't want to hurt me. I had no idea this was coming, I thought we were very happy.
We've been together almost a year which doesn't sound very long but he's the first guy who has treated me well, is just the nicest guy you could meet and I genuinely loved the time we spent together.
He did like his own space sometimes and I admit that I was very dependent on him. I should have still been having my own life aside from him and I know this now.
It's just so so difficult as I know I'll be fine with time but I want that time to be now as I feel so so sad. We both still love each other and he hasn't done anything wrong except not talking to me about the issues. I just feel so hurt and empty.
I have made lots of plans and I'm keeping busy seeing friends but it just doesn't make me feel any less sad.
Sorry for the length, I just needed an outlet!