For all my dhs problems lately with his anger/temper and days out alone i decided to leave my long term job and get a better one where i was respected.This was an easy transition apart from my car being hit by a lorry and written off.
Our ds told us he is gay,,fine except dh found it hard to accept.then we found money had gone into his account from a man online (more stress).i looked around for a room to rent some even have age restrictions and im only late 40s!!.
All the while dh either ignores me or shouts at the slightest thing,even at dd not just me which is hugely embarrassing in public.I am at a loss df was so ill this week he couldnt stand up to get to the loo as the cancer in his spine was soo painful a wheelchair is being arranged.
Then i find out my adopted d sis house was in a police drug raid this week.My quiet polite non drinking Mum cant believe it.We tried to tell mum she had married a believed dealer and they were arrestd,Meanwhile my "DH" is out today and has a golf minibreak this week.Suggestions pls i know the job swop was easy enough and im happy but what about the marriage in tatters with other stress should we just legally separate for now or would that be worse ?