Fed up with constant hassle!

[ohdearymeee]

Been split up with XH for a year now - he lives nearby and sees her most weekends, I'm seeing someone else and Im trying to move on with my life.

Ive only recently asked for maintenance as I don't like asking for money, the text messages I got off xh was appaling! Accusing me of being a golddigger as the guy I'm seeing is older, he bad mouths me to my older daughter, mocks me then tells everyone he still wants me back!

Hes a complete manchild, I did everything through our relationship and I had enough and left him! He still doesn't see what the problem was says we had a great relationship and I shouldn't of left.
It all gets me down and I live in limbo, Im so fed up!

What do I do?

How well were you advised re separation from this person; are you now formally divorced?.

He will not readily let you move on with your life so long as he is in it.

Does he now pay maintenance for his child; if not I would put the authorities onto him. He is still financially responsible for his child.

Presumably as well the contact arrangements were made informally?.

Go to CMS, get contact formalised at EOW and report his vile texts to the police.

I checked my bank and he's deposited some money - why does he have to make everything so difficult?!
I'm looking after his cats and asked him to take them back last night as I'm sick of paying for them, again I got hassle - he said they weren't his cats they were family animals wtf?! Last month he said they were his I feel like driving past his house and leaving them outside (I wouldn't) why does he behave in such a childish way? He wasn't bothered about anything when we were together it annoys me so much grrrr

He is using these things to control you. I bet he hasn't paid you enough. Get onto the CMS and give him his cats back. Time to stand up for yourself and stop putting up with his crap