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youngman23 · 01/11/2015 16:09

So i have posted a few threads recently about my break up!

So the last few weeks me and the ex where trying again, but to be honest it wasnt working so i called it a day!

Anyway after speaking to her yesterday she finialy gave me the awnser why she broke up with me and to be honest i wish she told me this when we first broke up it would of saved me alot of heartache!

Anyway the reason she split up with me was because she wants to enjoy her life without awnsering to someone, saying she wants to stroll in from a nightout at what ever time she pleases, and to be honest im fine with that she is young and im not gonna take that away from her!

The thing that pisses me off the most, is the fact that from pretty much day one of the relationship all she ever wanted was to get married, buy a house and start a family, and we was within weeks of moving into our own house! But when we first got together, i wanted that too but not at the moment, so over next few months and years i slowly came round to wanting all that too!

I kinda just feel betrayed and dont know how to move forward!

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youngman23 · 01/11/2015 17:38

I have now blocked her on whatsapp, facebook and her mobile number

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Floundering · 01/11/2015 17:56

Well done for blocking her so you're not tempted to contact her in weak moments.

At least she has eventually been honest with you, you're much too young to be settling down! Get your mates together & have a night out, or night in with a takeaway & action movies, or book a holiday for a change of scenery whatever you fancy!

Try & look on it as a lucky escape not a betrayal, you found out now not years to come with kiddies involved. :)

youngman23 · 01/11/2015 18:38

Funny you say that, i have just booked a month long safari for may next year!

I know im young, but i was ready to settle down, ive done quite a bit with my life the last few years, done some incredable holidays, done the whole getting pissed stuff every weekend, lived in Canada for a year!

Im just gonna focus on my next step in life, being an army brat, growing up around yhe army, thats my next goal, join the army!

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Floundering · 01/11/2015 22:40

Great stuff, new horizons, family stuff will come in the right time, good luck!

BitOutOfPractice · 01/11/2015 22:45

Good for you op. It sounds like you're the kind of person that will grab life and make the most of it

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