I've suspected my wife of having an affair for last 12 months. We've been married 10 years, have 2 fabulous kids who are both lower primary age. No known issues with relationship from my point, thought we were in a loving happy marriage.
Each time I've confronted her she has denied it and claimed to be just good friends with the fella I suspect she is shagging. Even going as far as asking me how I thought she would do this to our bueatiful family!
I was away for a week with work last month and was sent a hotel invoice and some pics of this so called friend in the hotel. The invoice is in my wifes name so sure it is genuine. They stayed overnight in a hotel while I was away working, she even paid for it FFS. I'm furious. Despite my anger I don't want our kids to suffer and my relationship with my wife had been good and if possible I'd like to try and work together and save the marraige.
Unfortunately we have family staying with us this week and have a number of events planned so can't confront her with my evidence until next weekend (will be a long hard week keeping it to myself). The children will be staying with grand parents so will be out of the way.
How do I keep my cool when I confront her?
Do people really survive affairs?
Why would she want to break up our beautiful family for the sake of a shag (or several!) The chap she is shagging has fuck all, lives where they work and from what I know has more exes than I've had hot dinners!
Thanks for reading and apologies for the rambling!