help me mend my broken heart

[lostinloveagain]

So I've let him go. I wanted him more than he wanted me, he was using me for sex. It was no good & I have to move on but it really, really hurts. Dating is such a nightmare in your 40s. Are there any decent men left out there? Despite my very best efforts I can't find any. How am I going to heal this wound? It's horrible not being wanted.

The only solution is to take your focus off dating and concentrate on other things in your life.easier said than done of course. There are decent people around but as you get older you also get more choosy and realistic.

You let go of someone who wasn't good for you so that's got to be positive

Don't search for someone whilst you're still hurting, it will cloud your judgement.

Focus on yourself, stuff seems to happen when you're not looking for it.

Do something practical, it will make you feel better. Honestly. Clean out a cupboard, wash your hair, do some gardening. Every time you feel miserable, do something practical.