Selfish dh
For the past 2 days I've been in bed with a fever, high temp, aching muscles, headache plus I'm also 12 weeks pregnant.
We already have one dd and partner is off work this week, for the first day he left us to it while he ran errands. We stayed in bed and watch movies. Then yesterday he took dd to soft play for 2 hours, she fell asleep in the car and slept for a further hour at home. I asked him to make her some dinner for when she wakes, which he did. He's very good at doing things when asked but never uses his own initiative to figure things out, but that's another story.
She wakes, eats and he plays with her when it's nearly bedtime he asks can I put her to sleep as he needs to get a hair cut, then go out with friends said no, those things are not a priority right now we then have a massive argument and he says he's been with dd all day why can't I just put her to sleep!
I'm so fed up and annoyed with his behaviour he thinks doing things with our dd whilst I'm sick he should be rewarded with going out when I look after her all the time so he gets to go football/ gym etc. I want to ask him to leave because I'm practically a single parent as it is, his needs always come before ours, and he just doesn't realise how selfish he is.