It all started with a Facebook add...

[LiarsRus]

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I have been seeing my boyfriend for 7 months. I have been hurt a ton of times in the past so usually have my guard up and have quite a..."suspicious personality".

I noticed that my new man has added a girl that he has no mutual friends with. The only reason my attention was drawn was because of the photo of her in her profile picture. Photo was a little like a glamour shot.

I asked BF how he knew her. He denied adding her so instantly my back was up. Why lie? He has clearly become friends on FB with her.

Denied denied, then just said it was "a stupid add", what does this even mean?

He promised and promised there was nothing in it, never spoken to her and deleted his FB to "prove" to me there is nothing going on. Then added that he had added her as a friend before we even got together - mixed messages here. (she was in his mutual friends and it came up in my news feed so was recent).

I couldn't let it lie and messaged the girl I know im crazy

Please see photo's below (I'm in the blue) I am so confused. after these messages she blocked me

Oh and how was she in mutual friends? Do you know her?

Well, regardless of that crazy thread, do you honestly believe your actions were that of a well-balanced woman?

He is clearly fucking around. Don't be harassing someone over it.

I am very confused indeed.

Oh, what, he DELETED his FB account??

He is definitely up to no good. Ditch him. This relationship's making you insecure, you deserve better.

Whatever he is up to you cannot go round messaging people you don't know asking why they're FB friends with your boyfriend! You've been together 7 months, if it's this bad now the relationship will only get worse. My advice is to cut your losses now and don't waste any more time.

Uff, you remind me of a time when a young, slightly confused Japanese boy and I were friends on facebook. I am old enough to be his grandmother and I make no secret of it and his girlfriend got in touch with me in a similar way, aaarrrgghhh

Heaven save us from jealous women!

To be honest, I can't see this relationship is good. Be kind to yourself and get out!

Have some self-respect.

If I got that message from someone, I would think that person is a nut-job!
Put yourself in her shoes, it's not her fault if your boyfriend is chatting her up.
She does not even have to answer your interrogating questions.

Take it up to your boyfriend.