Best online dating site for casual hookups?

[PermanentlyHorny]

Have NCd for this post. I am currently in the midst of a three-year long dry spell. I'm 43. I haven't been with a man since divorcing ex-DH, and in the last two years I was with him, it was a sexless marriage. At this point, I'm practically climbing the walls. I am constantly daydreaming about naked, hunky men and imagining myself being in intimate situations with them. I am also subscribed to various tumblr pages that are strewn with images of those aforementioned naked, hunky men. I've tried to keep myself satisfied with toys etc, but they aren't enough for me. I want the real thing.

I just want to find a fit man who wouldn't mind coming over a couple of times a week to give me a seeing to, iykwim. I don't want a full-blown relationship. I've never tried online dating so I'm a bit nervous about it. Any advice for me? I'm too old for Tinder, aren't I?

Try Fabswingers. It's not your keys in type scenario. I'm on there at the minute. Not met anyone in the flesh yet but there are tens of men for every woman. Very explicit pics though so there is no doubting what people are on there for. I tend to only message guys who haven't just taken 10 pics of their cock and only ones who show their face as there will be married/taken men on there.

Some of the blokes are decent to chat to and some are extremely hot!

Hi Permanently
You're not alone. I have this problem as well. There was a discussion about this recently here and here

I haven't had the bottle to try FS yet but I think I will. Life's too short and all that! Carpe bollocks.

Adult sites attract weirdos. Better of establishing a social life in my experience ??

Social situations are full of weirdos too.

Something like okcupid? There's a wide range of people on there looking for different things.

Although I joined it three years for someone to mess around with and I certainly did. I met a few people who were lots of fun but I also ended up meeting my dh on there.

Fab swingers I tried but it was a bit mucky for me. I'm open minded but it was seedy and I didn't like the way you are encouraged to rate people out of 5 stars after you've had sex with them like an Amazon purchase.

I've sent you a pm.

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Right, not my name is changed! I'm on fabswingers and have found it a revelation! I'm very very choosy as to who I chat to and meet and have only had one dodgy meet.

I've also found an amazing partner on there so normal people do exist.

No such thing as too old for Tinder.

Tinder. I had a year of no strings attached fun with some really hot guys on that site! I don't think you're too old. I was 35 and the guys I was seeing were around 26. The ones my own age were a little weird tbh. Give it a whirl!

Did you find one,?

Never too old full stop. I’m 57 and found a my once or twice a week guy on Fab in February and my holidays guy on Tinder nearly two years ago. Both lovely, lovely men who meet my needs for now

Zombie

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Yep, as the others say, fabswingers. I met a doctor on PoF who happened to also be on Fab, as was I, so they can be normal people, too :) Well, he was, anyway :)

Like any OLD site you have to be prepared for rejection and stuff. I met someone on there who wasn't attracted to me in the flesh. I suppose I just had to take it as some people will be attracted to me, some won't.

Have fun!

The good thing is as a woman you really do get your pick of men, you could have a hookup the very night you joined if you wanted it.

Try any dating site - Tinder, Badoo. All full of men looking for a sh@g.

Fairly full of women looking for a shag too 😊

TBH Match has a fair few men just looking for a shag too. Only been on there 3 days and have been propositioned twice already 😂

I am 52 and on tinder. Loads of hot thirty something men interested.

I met someone off fab. He was fucking awful. Shit in bed and he had a "review" that sounded good. Absolute horror. He farted after sex just to top it all off.