dh has a problem controlling his anger and has agreed to see a counsellor about it. tonight we started talking about it and he doesn't seem to take it seriously that i am scared of him. i know he doesn't mean to frightend me, he looses control - he's not generally malicious or controlling. we got a bit annoyed with eachother so i went upstairs, he came to to see me and i suggested he went to watch tv for a while as i know he needs some time on his own in the evening. he got angry and said "i'm being treated like a dog, woof" and stomped off - i was trying to suggest something to help calm him down