Hi, I split with my ex 18 months ago, he left to go to other woman and she has since had his baby. I don't speak to ex at all even though we have a 5 yo ds with non verbal autism. I stopped him seeing ds 9 months ago when it became obvious my ds wasn't safe with him (ex fell asleep whilst 'looking after' ds and on other occasions took him to the pub where he was taking cocaine).
Ex contacted a solicitor a few months ago and I was asked to attend a mediation appointment to check if we were suitable for mediation. The mediator didn't think mediation would help and that was the last I heard from him.
Today, though I get a friend request from his gf. He knows I can't stand her so I'm unsure as to why she would send the request. I have declined it and blocked her from contacting me again.
Did I do the right thing? What would you do? Could it have been sent accidentally (obviously if she was looking at my page)?
Sorry, I know this isn't a big problem and some of you are dealing with real dilemmas and heartbreak but I don't really have anyone I can ask in real life and tbh I'm really curious as to why she would want to befriend me.
Thanks for reading