Been married almost ten years. We've had our up and downs, lots of downs but still trying to make a go of it for the sake of our children. Today found out he's telling people I'm bipolar. I'm so upset. He used to say this years ago and tbh I thought he came to that conclusion because he knew nothing about women or what upset them. I've been called all the names under the sun nutcase, stupid woman, can't do anything. I've just come on here because years ago now I told him to stop talking badly about me behind my back to his friends, whom then I have to see. I don't talk badly about him. I'm embarrassed by his behaviour on this and I know I'm left feeling bad because of his own shortcomings. I know I have a short fuse and get annoyed but know I'm not bipolar and I'm so offended that my unhappiness at his behaviour has been whittled down to a medical disorder in myself. Oh ... I'm also in denial. Feel so disappointed because I feel everything is a sham and a facade. What do you think? How can someone who supposedly loves you mock you in this way? Anyone else experienced this?