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Pregnant & husband threw me out

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Littlemummy2741 · 12/10/2015 13:14

Hi
I'm pregnant about 9 weeks when my husband found out he threw me out we already have a lo 4 years old he's refusing to see the lo as he wants nothing to do with the new baby (which is his) what can I do?

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Littlemummy2741 · 12/10/2015 13:14

See abouve

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AbeSaidYes · 12/10/2015 13:15

go to CAB, find out what your rights are. Look here

run away from him as fast as you can.

Do you have family/friends?

glenthebattleostrich · 12/10/2015 13:17

Get in touch with women's aid, I'm betting your OP is just the tip of the iceberg.

chantico · 12/10/2015 13:20

I'm not sure how relevant this is, but what did he find out?

Littlemummy2741 · 12/10/2015 13:26

He controls me. Ss are involved with my lo already as he phoned them & told them I'm abusive towards my lo & drink alochol all the time

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miaowroar · 12/10/2015 13:27

I presume he found out about the pregnancy Chantico. What was the problem Littlemummy? Did he not want another baby?

Agree with Abe - put as much distance between him and you and your dc as quickly as possible.

Littlemummy2741 · 12/10/2015 13:34

He said if it happens it happens but was trying to force me into an abortion. I'm currently living with my parents with my lo

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Katie2001 · 12/10/2015 14:02

If he had genuine concerns about abuse and alcohol with regard to your child, he would not be throwing both of you out, he'd be fighting to keep your child and the unborn child. I hope social services will see that. Best of luck to you, stay safe.

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost · 12/10/2015 14:24

The fucking twat. Turning out a pregnant women. The mother of his existing child and child to be. Would if this fucking government will be hounding him like they do single parents. !!. Very much doubt it.. The next time they start down crying single parents, which happens too fucking often. It'd high fucking time they turned their resentment to the feckless parent.
He didn't want another child. Well he shouldn't have dipped his wick. That's all it boils down to. Or put something on the end of it, as JK would say.
Sorry for the horrendous language but I am furious.!
Thank goodness. You have your parents and somewhere to stay but thats besides the point.
That is yours and your children's home. Surely to God legally. He can't just throw you and your dcs out. Please get legal advice. IM no expert but surely making you potentially homeless with his children which you could well have been had you not had your mum and dad. Can't be right.
What's he going to say to his mates down the pub, if he actually has any, about why you spilt up. Oh I got her pregnant, but I didn't want another child so I threw my pregnant wife and 4 child out. Big brave gentle heroic man.
YY to Katie.

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