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husband denying affair

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mrsdarcy77 · 12/10/2015 11:28

hi all, has anybody else experienced the following: in a nutshell, married 15 years, husband worked long hours, drank a lot and after some being caught out in a lorry load of lies and being involved with another woman (he needed somebody to talk to??) he left, because the trust was gone. literally couldnt get out the door quick enough. He is living with this OW now but is denying it to everyone, friends, familly, kids, colleagues, he has told everyone he is staying on a friends couch. I find this is mental, as obviously at some point the truth will out. Am not wanting him to come back I am aware I am better off without him. I guess I am just wondering if this is normal behaviour? I know for a fact he drove straight from me to her (its not far away) and has been there since. Its almost funny that he thinks his lies are believed by anyone.

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ravenmum · 12/10/2015 11:48

100% normal for lying cheats I'm afraid. Well, more "stereotypical" than "normal".

TheStoic · 12/10/2015 11:48

It's very common.

It's like when a toddler covers their own eyes and believes nobody can see them.

He can say whatever he likes, but people are not stupid. Now he just looks like an idiot, as well as a cheat and a liar.

mulranna · 12/10/2015 12:01

Yep mine believed he was "the invisible man" - wined and dined his fugly trout for months in the centre of our neighbourhood and is convinced "no one saw them"....!

mrsdarcy77 · 12/10/2015 13:04

he also gets very cocky when we have to meet (we have kids together) and thats exactly what he is like, the child with the cake all over its face denying they ate it.... winds me up and I guess at some point this tramp with be introduced as his OH?? how long does that normally take?

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mrsdarcy77 · 12/10/2015 13:16

totally agree like a complete idiot. I would like closure on two things though, how he met the tramp and how long it has been going on. I am thinking this will give me clarity and an ability to move on (am getting there)

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cozietoesie · 12/10/2015 13:22

...It's like when a toddler covers their own eyes and believes nobody can see them...

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