Boyfriend texting another woman?

[Kellyxxxx14]

If your boyfriend had been texting another woman(same woman) for a couple of years now.
Some sexual some just friendly.
He wished her happy valentines day etc.
Would you think you were doing something wrong? Am I boring him or is it him with the problem?
Why her? Why can't he give me that attention.
You probably seen my other thread,
We have a daughter and we are struggling.
I'm at end of my tether really.
I don't know what I'm doing wrong tbh.

I would go fucking apeshit as should you

Its not you, its him.

You and he need to be apart now as well as completely reassess and think about what you have learnt about relationships to date. Those damaging lessons need to be unlearnt otherwise you could go onto repeat the same old over and over again.

What did you learn about relationships when growing up?.

Would you think you were doing something wrong?

No, I'd think HE was doing something wrong. Sexting would be a deal breaker.

My dd was only just four when her father and I split up. she asked why. I explained that daddy had a girlfriend, and that isn't allowed when you're married, so we had to split up.
Please read my reason carefully. It applies in your case.
It will be horrible for a while but you and your dd will be fine eventually. Better off without him.

I don't get why he is.
It's sad.

Kelly you know why, you said it yourself in your other thread: He doesn't love you anymore. And he's showing no courage or respect for you. Now you need to decide what you want to do about it.

What is this woman to him? His sister's best mate?

It doesn't matter why. It certainly isn't your fault. Its something in nature, 'impregnate and move on'.