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Had enough, getting out! Lies, rage, debt, porn, secret email, POF account and escorts

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Newstart2016 · 10/10/2015 13:56

Trouble is, how do I go about ending this....? DC 15 months oldSmile The house is mine we're not married but without his contribution to the bills I would really struggle. We moved here together nearly three years ago, but he struggled to sell, so in my name only and I paid large deposit on it, no contribution from him. I would need to sell up, so plan to get this process started before chucking him out. I work full time and so does OH. I know for a fact he won't give me much in the way of money to help out. How did others do it? I'm fortunate I'm probably in a better position than most, still daunting.

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ChampagneCommunist · 13/11/2016 23:02

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TheClacksAreDown · 13/11/2016 23:12

Well done you op!

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Thefutureisbright2017 · 14/11/2016 06:03

Aww user1490... i know that feeling. Our last holiday my OH behaved like that. Like everything i did disgusted him and i was a piece of crap on his shoe. I can only suggest that you make some time for yourself. I latterly joined a bootcamp and started lifting some weights. Did a whole lot fir my self esteem and got leaner too. Get a hair cut and make no referncento it. He'll soon sit up and take notice.

Yourarejokingme · 14/11/2016 12:44

User 1490 start your own thread to get advice from others

I know it's painful but sometimes leaving can be the best outcome. I wouldn't stay if I was unhappy but that's me

Can I ask what do you gain from the relationship.

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