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What would you think if you got this text?

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Needsabiggrip · 30/09/2015 16:45

Ok new to this dating lark and to be honest grinding it really stressful

Thing have been going great with a nice man for few weeks now, very happy!

At the weekend we sadly had to abandon a big date night out at the last minute due to a breakdown!

Monday morning get a very sorry I'm gutted about the weekend text and saw him briefly at work and I kind of mentioned about getting together one night this week as he goes away thur for a week but he didn't really commit so nothing was arranged nor was our big date re scheduled!

Since then I haven't really heard anything from him except today I just get a text saying " I'm in meetings and have been since 9"

Now I wondered if he sent this to the wrong person as I didn't text him or anything so I responded with "?... Not sure this was meant for me!" And again not heard anything!

Not sure if I'm reading to much into it all!

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MairzyDoats · 30/09/2015 16:47

Text back and say 'was that meant for me?' and you'll have your answer!

pocketsaviour · 30/09/2015 16:47

Have you texted/rang him today?

If not, I suspect it's a message for someone else.

loveyoutothemoon · 30/09/2015 16:50

I take it was a vehicle breakdown of his? I do think the text was probably meant for you, and don't see it as being unreasonable.

tillytown · 30/09/2015 16:58

Maybe he is in a group meeting, and wants someone to text whilst being bored to death?
Message back and ask about rescheduling your date.

goddessofsmallthings · 30/09/2015 17:18

As you responded with "?... Not sure this was meant for me!" all you can do now is wait to see if he contacts you.

Don't be surprised if he doesn't as it may well be that the vehicle breadown failed to prevent him from going out with someone else and you got the 'gutted' text on Monday morning as he wanted to avoid any hassle at work.

If he's going off for a week away tomorrow it's unlikely he'll have time to see you tonight but, in any event, the next move - or not as the case may be - has to come from him.

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Needsabiggrip · 30/09/2015 17:59

Was going to say no I hadn't contacted him! But going from a couple of texts/calls and checking my call log it appears my friends toddler called a few people from my phone today Confused so it must of been as a result of that!

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Smorgasboard · 30/09/2015 18:00

He's just not that into you

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