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Perspective on adultwork

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Confusedfedup · 28/09/2015 17:27

I've posted on here before about my H's cheating, we're currently seperated. I found that he'd visited Adultwork but he maintains he never engaged. I'm not going back to him but i want to understand it.

He says as porn got boring he views profiles on adultwork to see their profiles and read what they do because it provides what feels like more titilation. But that he has never engaged with any one from the site. I dont know that he was a member on the site. I've looked on the site and to me it is just hookers adververtising their services in detail and photos in various forms of undress and I just cant see how that's more exciting than porn. I agree porn could get boring but this to me doesnt seem any good at all.

Can someone, man or woman, who 'gets' what he's saying talk to me!

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reasonstobecheerful123 · 28/09/2015 17:53

Can someone, man or woman, who 'gets' what he's saying talk to me!

He's lying.

moopymoodle · 28/09/2015 17:56

He's lying. Why would somebody actively join when you can view for free anyway! The people who work on there also sell photos and cam time, it's not just prostitution

Twinklestein · 28/09/2015 17:56

Well you'll probably get a couple of guys who will assure you that they whacked off to prostitutes as it felt more 'real', and they could 'buy' them, unlike porn stars. (What that says about them I don't care to say).

But, the most likely scenario is that he was looking for prostitutes to have sex with.

Perhaps he's always used them.

AuntieStella · 28/09/2015 17:58

Unless he'd only visited once or twice (heard of it, wanted to see it) then I agree he's lying.

But even being curious enough to want to look is pretty low.

CalleighDoodle · 28/09/2015 21:31

Is this the guy who arranged car meets but said he didnt actually go, despite there being a 'next time' email?

He is lying. You wont understand what he is trying to tell You because it is bollocks.

AnyFucker · 28/09/2015 21:36

He's lying

He was lying before

He is still doing it. You will never understand so my advice is to stop trying. Some people are just dysfunctional, they can't even explain it themselves so they make up some shit in an attempt to make it more palatable

Often, the lies make them look even worse than if they just told the plain truth

You can't help him. Save yourself.

0dfod · 28/09/2015 21:42

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