Assuming they make it through October my ds and his gf (veryvery first) will havebeen together for 2 months. I am going to visit in late October, & kind of would expect (hope that doesn't sound too presumptuous) to meet her as well. I haven't been told I won't but given I only found out via DD of her existence and all I know is her name,that she is Irish and well that is it, I don't actually know. He has made a lot of personal progress in the lastfew months and used to be cripplingly shy so I would like to get the full picture of the young man I have raised. Don't know whether to force the issue by asking if a joint meeting is on the cards?