When is enough, enough??

[Hastag0417]

Hi, I am so unhappy and fed up in my marriage but don't know how to get out of it for financial and children reasons.
We don't have anything in common. I don't love him anymore but I don't know how to get out. Will my children be ok?? I'm only here for them.
I e read a number of posts on here tonight and I am in the same situation as them. My husband treats me like shit. No other word for it. I get very little help in the house, there's no affection, we don't share a bed. If I ever take issue with how he talks to me, it's me being over sensitive. If I say I want to leave he sneers "you won't go" and I don't cos I have 2 wonderful kids that I don't want to upset. I have no where to go and my financial situation isn't great although he earns a lot. Would my children hate me if I left him??
Any advice would be good. All I care about are my sons feelings.

Good for you for taking action, so many never do. When you hit the point when you're wondering if you're doing the right thing, remember that you're setting an example to your kids about how they should treat people they love. Good on you!

How are you doing, OP?

Another one wishing good luck op. Hope you are okay.

Thanks all, I'm feeling more positive. I've got an appointment next week and I'm putting myself on the council list. We had a talk yesterday and he apologised but I don't really think much will change. I've been here before. I've decided my best plan at the moment is to build some savings until I know where I stand financially. Thanks ladies, you've been a great help.