I should have said something ages ago but stupidly didn't.
Last year a close relatives long term partner made a pass at me - twice in one night. The second time I actually ran off. He has form for this but my relative thinks it's too much hassle kicking him out.
I never told my partner or her although I told another family member who I'm very close to the day after. She told me to forget about it. The reasons why I didn't tell them was mostly because I don't want my partner fighting with him, because it will boil down to that and plus she wouldn't leave him any way. I used to visit their house daily and immidiatly stopped and we drifted apart.
Last month I was at a family gathering and ended up being at a house party while both of them were there. I got drunk and told her that he had tried it on. She instantly blew up and said I was lying.i have never lied to her, she Didn't ask for any details and they left straight away.
Two other people over heard the conversation.
I havnt seen her at all even though we live in a tiny village or even at the shops which we normally bump in to regularly.
I don't know whether to tell my DP (long term kids ect ..) now the cats out of the bag he is being kept in the dark. I know it's going to get brought up again. This is going to turn in to a long term feud with my relative because that's how she handles stuff. It's going to be awkward if we see each other at family functions and dick head (relatives partner) will be smiling away knowing he has gotten away with it again (I'm not the first) and I feel now I'm betraying DP keeping it from him. I'm also pregnant and can do with out the drama.
What would you do?