This has been posted about in other guises before, I'm sure.
I think I am looking for a little reassurance-and courage-
I divorced a year ago and prior to this had not had sex or been physically close to my exh for many years. I have struggled with a few body image issues as a result-I am out of shape and have an un-toned 40-something year old body but do take good care of how I look in general and dress well....(not bad looking, I've been told ! )
I have been seeing someone for a little while and last time we saw each other there was definite chemistry there and I can see this progressing, which is great, BUT, I can't quite get over someone seeing my body, the wobbles, the bumps, stretch marks etc. to be that exposed (literally!) is making me feel more than a little nervous and, because it's been a very long time, I am also nervous about sex and physical intimacy too. I was with my exh for 15 years, it's been over 8 years since we last had sex 
This feels a little ridiculous writing it down- a 40 something professional woman, mother and with a happy life, but now with butterflies and worries that it'll all go wrong or my body may put him off 
I think that by being nervous I am making it seem a bigger thing than it is??
Anyone have any advice or been through this?