My husband and I bicker a lot. We always have. We've had some very low points in our marriage but I've always managed to get past it.
In the last three or four days he's really upset me to the point where I feel ill. Could you let me know how serious you think this behaviour is, or if it's worth just keeping going.
Talking about a woman we know having abortions at the breakfast table in front of our 6 and 1 year olds.
Saying rude and racist comments about DS1s school mates while he's in the car.
Answering the phone while driving with his children and pregnant wife in the car.
Stopping directly in front of and blocking a junction which many cars are trying to pass, to continue talking on the phone while his children and pregnant wife are in the car.
Driving down a one way street while his children and pregnant wife are in the car, because he's on the phone and not looking where he's going.
Calling me a bitch, a psycho, a terrible driver in front of the kids because I asked him not to do these things and said he was letting us down.
He did say the word sorry in the end, but he shouted it angrily at me and expects me to accept it. His behaviour does not show any remorse and I know he would do the same things again if he was in the same position.
And today's is the worst of all - I'm 38 weeks pregnant. I called him this afternoon because I started contractions. I called back a few hours later to say they had stopped and not to worry, but he'd decided to spend the afternoon drinking. He was so drunk he couldn't understand me.
I'm pretty sure the baby isn't coming today, but I feel so ashamed that I would have to go to the hospital alone or with a drunk as a father to my poor child.
Is this as bad as I think?