So confused

[youngman23]

So i have made a few threads recently so im sorry in advance!

Long story short she split with me as i was sufforcating her!

So im just really confused since we split up i have really tryed my hardest to not make contact with her as she told me she needed space to figure out what she wants! But its her that makes the contact, she tells me she loves me,she tells me we are great together, she tells me she really hopes she can figure out what she wants, and she hopes she wakes up one morning and realises she wants us! Last night she was sending me pictures of me and her!

The thing is i really want this relationship and i know deep down she does too, we was soo good together up and till about 6 weeks ago

Help

She also told me last night, we went on a lovely holiday with me last year and she was desperate for me to ask her to marry me, i was planning on asking her this year on her birthday i had planned it for months but because things had gone south a little bit i decided that would look desperate

She is mindfucking you

Cut contact and walk away

The thing is i know she is going through alot at the moment, not just us and she doesnt cope with stress very well. Im willing to wait but i dont know how long for

While you're waiting in the hope that she'll decide to commit to you, your life is slipping by while she's enjoying hers to the full.

Even if she does decide to return to you the chances are it won't last and once a relationship has ended for whatever reason it's best to cut your losses and move on, otherwise you'll be consigning yourself to the uneviable state of limbo you find yourself in now.

Do you have rl friends you can meet up with? If not, get out and about and make some new ones. Life is for living, not for moping.

Listen to Anyfucker and Goddess.
They have given you good advice.