I'm sure that this has been done to death before but anyway! At the beginning of the summer I broke up with my BF. We'd only been together for about 18 months but he was the first guy I'd dated after a long long period of being single. He instigated the split and even though I was aware things weren't altogether rosy I had hoped we could sort things out. After we split I still saw him around a lot as we share a lot of friends; we were friends before we got together. So I spent most of the summer thinking that maybe he would work out he'd make a mistake and we'd get a second chance. Now he has started seeing someone new and I'm driving myself crazy thinking about him and her together doing all the stuff we used to do! I know I need to let go and move on but somehow I can't. The logical part of me thinks why would I want to be with someone who clearly no longer wants to be with me, but my heart still wants him.