I think im too broken to ever have a relationahip/sex, ever again

[Bullettoothtony]

I posted a couple of weeks ago about a man I had a crush on. The first time I had felt remotely 'stirred' since my divorce 4 years ago.

We had a works night out for someone's birthday last week and I was hopeful. Nothing happened, I got a good night cuddle is all

From my last thread, I've managed to accept this doesn't mean I'm hideous; just that he isn't interested. I'm so grateful for the advice on the thread, because I know I wouldn't have dealt with that disappointment so well without them

But I do feel pretty hopeless. Which has been fine in the past, but now I feel sad

I'm not very patient, either.

I met a man recently and he was the first possible in a looooong time. He was very obviously giving out all the right vibes then pulled back. Cba with that - get on with it mate or fuck off

I sometimes think I'd be bored on a date re 'so, what are we here for, shall we get on with it or shall we not bother'

I'm obviously not in the right place...

In my very considered opinion, if a man likes you nothing will stop him beating a path. I really, really cba with a man who's taking his time to decide.