Stupid Mistake

[100thattemptatausername]

Im worrying I've made such a big mistake.
I broke up with my ex some time ago (over a month) whilst I was with him when things were going well I did send him nude pictures and videos of me. Ive deleted all videos and pictures I got from him and want him to do the same, but I don't know how to ask him.
i haven't spoke to him since and because he manipulates my emotions like you wouldn't believe I would probably end up apologising.
How do I ask him to do this? I may be being paranoid, he could of deleted them himself, I never sent anything like this before and the way I feel now, I won't again.
Any thoughts?

Was it a bad break up? Are you on speaking terms? Is there anyway you could ask him to meet you then insist he deletes them in front of you?

Sorry, but even if he deletes them in front of you you wouldn't know if he'd backed them up somewhere else.

Forget about it and move on.

By mentioning it you also run the risk of him realising it's important to you and using it as power over you. I'd accept that it's shit he has them and try to move on.

The worry is that if you raise this, he'll remember and has ammunition against you if the mood takes him.

It was not a good breakup, I had to realise how he emotionally controled me and couldn't really see it even when we broke up.
Most people have said to leave it in case. I don't want him to realise he has that power I hate that he has them though.
I'll chalk it up to experience and move on, thanks all

I also recommend not mentioning it.

Bear in mind if he does ever try to threaten you that he'll publish them or send to friends, that is a criminal offense and the police do now have power to prosecute.