I am trying to move 35 miles away .....45 minutes from EXH and currently going through the Scottish court system to do this as though he moved away from the marital home in the other direction he believes I should stay put in a town that I have no ties to, there are no relatives either his or mine who live closer than 400 miles away.
The reason for me moving is that currently my dd (10) and ds (9) have to get up at 0615 every morning to get to the childminder and I don't get back due to rush hour until 1830 to 1900 which I feel is too long apart.
Both dd and ds are happy with the idea of the move but EXH is not (even though it does not impact on his access time with them (he actually leaves most of the commuting and care to his wonderful nanny) and I am willing to help with travel for when access is due!
I have a great support network to where I am planning to move and the children would be able to stay in bed until 0800. I can't see what his issue is! I have constant legal letters from him on this aspect even though we are divorced plus he has regular tantrums (yes he was very very EA when we were together).