This might be long but I will cut it down as much as I can (sorry) I'm 32 and I met this man online 5 years ago, we built a friendship via talking, cam talking, texting, emailing. I met him and he is who he said he was and we have spoken everyday for 5 years. It's like a "fake" relationship I have been with no one for 8 years because I had a baby and was left pregnant by my husband and it was a very difficult pregnancy and a difficult time as I don't have any family and really it's just us. He lives alone. We live about 2 hours away from each other but he doesn't ask to see me. He tells me he loves me and that he believes we will be together but yet he does nothing to lead our relationship that way, when I tell him I need to break away as I feel I'm waiting for something that won't happen he gets upset and then so do I. I'm lonely and just work and look after my child, everything I do is for or with my child. I sometimes just need a hug or someone to sit with but when I tell him this he tells me he is here for me, but he means over the phone. What do I do? I love him I have invested so many years. Please help.