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What do you do when you are feeling week post breakup?

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Beaverfeaver2 · 06/09/2015 10:59

Seperated from husband over 2 weeks ago.
Felt numb and relieved to begin with.
Now im starting to miss the things we had (material things) and am feeling lonely.
He wants me back and all my family want us to get back together. I know I'm not getting back with him.

I don't want to turn to drink or overeating to feel better.
I seem to be exhausting all available friends for their company and there's only so much I can be a burden on them before they get fed up.

What do you do?

OP posts:
goddessofsmallthings · 06/09/2015 11:36

You'd be best advised to add this post to your other thread and have this one deleted so that responders can see the backstory that has led to you leaving him and living with your dps.

While you may be missing the material goods you acquired during your marriage, you are clearly not missing him.

Unless you're continually banging on about your recent separation/lack of a job/having to live with your dps, it's unlikely that your friends will feel burdened by your company but, if you want to give them a break, distracting yourself in time-honoured fashion with brisk walks and good books is a healthier alterative to booze and comfort food.

Fwiw, the divorce process will lead to a division of the joint marital assets which should see you reunited with the belongings you are particularly fond of.

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