My wonderful husband booked me a relaxing surprise birthday weekend away for the two of us this weekend. DS was going to be taken care of by my mum/gran, and we were having some quality adult time together as it's the last chance we'll get for a LONG time since we have twins due to arrive at the end of the month. How lovely.
Well, a couple of weeks ago, 'D'H decided that going out with a few of his mates to meet up with his old football team was way more important that the weekend away with his wife and cancelled it. Obviously I was really quite upset.
So, tonight, I'm laid in bed on my own. He's already warned me he's going to be in 'no state to do anything on Sunday'. I'm waiting for him to stumble in shitfaced (he always over does it with these particular friends, much to my annoyance!) I can't lock the door as he's not taken a key so I don't feel comfortable going to sleep with the house unsecured. He's ignoring my texts. The pub he was going to shut at 11:30 so he's obviously gone clubbing/to a house party. He's got form for not coming home at all when he's gone out with these people.
I'm royally pissed off!
To make matters worse, tomorrow I'll be left to look after DS(2yo) on my own with crippling SPD, and he'll be laid feeling sorry for himself and being abusive because that's what he does when he's hung over!