Stbxh is a judgemental prick

[JellyBean31]

I left in November due to his EA behaviour, no regrets... He's tried for a reconciliation a couple of times but there's no chance. Neither of us have bothered starting divorce proceedings yet.

I've got loads of friends and have had a brilliant summer socialising / holidaying with them, only problem is I can't afford my new social life long term. I work full time but decided I need a 2nd job, so asked in my local (old man) pub if they have any shifts..... Yay I start on Sunday.

Anyway, the DC have obv told him and he's texted to say "good luck..... I'm going to see a solicitor this afternoon". I hadn't realised working in a pub was grounds for divorce!!

I'm so tempted to download the papers off the gov.uk website & get them sent first.... Aaaarrrrgggghhhhh how can he still wind me up!!!

marriednotdead in that case I guess neither of us have any grounds as we've been split 10 months and contact has been minimal. No 3rd parties involved.

I had said to a friend a couple of weeks ago (afer some other ridiculous thing he said) I always knew he was an idiot, why does he insist on reminding me!! I guess this falls into the same category!

Yes classy and it's probably best to ask questions why I think that before you jump in and tell me I have no right to make the statement you did!

You presumed I was saying it because all single mothers shouldn't have a social life! They should just not before and at the expence of their children, you didn't ask me why I said what I did!

We both have made presumptions - assumptions that have been proved wrong! I have apologised you seem to think you have the morel high ground despite doing exactly what I did! Isn't that ironic?! Oh yes and hypocritical!

NaughtToThreeSadOnions

What the fuck are you talking about , what moral high ground am I standing on?

I assumed nothing, I pointed out your response to Rebecca and found it funny, that's it really.

Less of the ! too, it makes you sound highly strung

Well your telling me off for judging Rebecca while judging me!

Your moral high ground is that your some how better than ME because you didn't jusge Rebecca! Yet you judged me without knowing fuck all about my life the same way I didn't know anything about Rebecca's life!

So your better than me and can tell me off for judging some one while doing exactly that yourself!

You find my comments ironic I find yours hypocritical

Stop with the !.

Night

No one judged you Naught.

Op have fun in your new job, I always found that when I worked in pubs I spent my wages over the jump. But lots of fun.

Knew it was all bluster. I've had the "sorry I spat my dummy out, I'm not starting divorce proceedings" text

Not sure if his occasional fuckwittery via text since we've split is enough grounds for unreasonable behaviour, but if iI isn't & it's right that after 6 months it can't be cited, I may have no choice but to wait for the 2 yrs to be up. As I told him on 27th Sept 2014 only 12 months 22 days to go!