Broke up with a complete twat yesterday. Finally seen the light after 2.5 years and am now ignoring his texts. However there are so many things I want to tell him, so I think I'll vent on here instead.
- You aren't set in your ways, you are selfish.
- 2 bunches of flowers in 2.5 years stinks.
- The only chocolate you ever brought me was one bar of Galaxy. You let your DS eat it.
- When I cry and beg you to stop during sex and you don't, you're not being dominant, you're raping me.
- Never watching anything but your programs is mean.
- Your 'friends' in the pub aren't laughing with you, they are laughing at you.
- After 8 years, you should be over your ex leaving you.
- Buying your DC everything they want but giving no affection or boundaries isn't parenting.
- Your DS never saying thank you for anything is just plain rude.
10. Yes, you had a tough childhood. You weren't abused - you need to get over it.
11. Never kissing me, holding my hand or hugging me hurts.
12. Getting on with my ex doesn't mean I want to get back with him.
13. Meeting OW, texting OW, chatting with OW on Facebook isn't acceptable.
14. You can't handle your drink. At all. And you aren't 'okay' when you're drunk - you're nasty and aggressive.
15. You had a good woman in your life, who loved you and supported you. Who cared for you and your children, who stood by you and wanted a future with you. You lost her.
I feel better for doing that. It's so raw, it hurts and I'm crying a lot, but I know I needed to leave the relationship. If you could call it a relationship.
Thanks for reading x