Posting in relationships as it seemed more appropriate than aibu (I know i'm not) or chat (too serious a subject).
Talking to friend (24, was oldest in primary school class) on phone recently, and she reveals that someone we both used to be friends with (23 like me, we were youngest in class) had sex in primary school (somewhere between 8-10 years old) with another boy in our class, we were all in same class from nursery, the girl who had sex didn't join until p5.
Apparently they were caught in the act, and parents and school were informed. I heard nothing about it at the time! But, I did hear that this boy, and another girl, were caught having oral sex at around this time (her on him). I remember telling my mother, and us having a long chat about "feelings" and being ready and to talk to her again before doing anything like that (which I did when I was nearly 15).
What shocked me was friends assertion, that the woman is just a dirty bitch, (she is very slutty now, has broken up families and such) and just always has been.
Now i'm rethinking it all, as an adult, I really think this woman was abused in some way as a child. Or the boy was abused, and was inappropriate with the two girls.
I can remember touching myself from I was about 8 (in private obviously) but not wanting to touch a boy in that way! The boy I fancied, I daydreamed about kissing only (and not the french kind until much later).
All three children had hard home lives, and ended up in trouble as teenagers, the boy and the girl that was my friend both have children of their own they don't see much. Not sure what the other girl is up to now.
Opinions? Is it normal for children of 9 (which is p6, which is when I heard about the oral sex incident to be experimenting in this way, or does it indicate abuse? Non of the children were removed from their parents, but I think all three were as teenagers.
Trying to put as much info so as to not drip feed.