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sex with an ex, now I feel rubbish

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campervan67 · 25/08/2015 16:29

We were together for 6 months, split up a few months ago, he was the one who ended it saying it didn't feel right. I was a bit sad about the whole thing, but not too heartbroken, I'd been having doubts myself. We said we'd stay friends, but I didn't really expect it to happen. But then he texted, and we've been in contact most days since, met up as friends, he got me some lovely thoughtful birthday presents... And I recently started thinking, we get on so well now, see each other so much, neither of us are seeing anyone else, maybe actually we should give it another go.

So we saw each other at a mutual friend's party. Had way too much to drink, ended up sleeping together. The next day he was just acting as if nothing had happened. So I told him how I felt. He seemed surprised, he said his feelings hadn't changed, we were just friends, last night was just a drunken mistake.

I just feel a bit shit. And stupid.

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kittybiscuits · 25/08/2015 16:44

Poor you campervan - he still feels the same, he just fancied a shag. You deserve much more. I would give him a wide berth and give yourself some time for your ego to mend.

spudlike1 · 25/08/2015 17:15

Men... tut !! Hope it was a good shag at least ...many of us have been there ...hey ho ...his Loss .. toss your head and move on ...silly man

BoredAdminGirl · 25/08/2015 17:21

It's done now, no point in beating yourself up. We learn from our mistakes and at least you have closure, knowing what he wants.

Have a nice long hot bubble bath and give yourself a break

campervan67 · 25/08/2015 17:51

Thank you, yeah I know I just need to put it down to experience and move on. I'm just so pissed off with myself. I was totally over him, now it just feels like being dumped all over again.

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HellonHeels · 25/08/2015 19:17

Poor you Thanks

I'd suggest end the friendship and go no contact. Friends don't usually use friends for a bunk up unless it's an agreed FWB. You deserve better friends.

Wando · 25/08/2015 22:22

Im so sorry - but I assure you that in time life will be better. You won't be wasting head space about this guy and you can move on - good luck

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