Help me be a good friend! (all very teeny sounding)

[NKfell]

I actually wrote this out last night then didn't post it but, here I go. I know it's very childish but, it is what it is. Any advice will be appreciated.

My friend has fallen for her friend (I'm more of an acquaintance of this person) and last Thursday something happened with them and then they spent the weekend together. The jist is, my friend likes "R" but doesn't know if "R" likes her. "R" is beautiful, intelligent, kind and also possibly the most unapproachable human being I've ever met in my life.

DP suggested saying "so...are we dating now?" but he was shot down in a flash with a "oh no!". I said maybe just take it easy and don't mention it, wait to see what develops- it's only been a week.

Noooooooo just go with the flow

I almost namechanged for this because I think it's so childish!

My friend is a real softy and "just wants to know" whereas I've always been a fan of just seeing what happens. I can't remember even having that conversation with DP I think after a month or so I heard him call me his girlfriend and thought "woop!" haha.

She's actually getting stressed out about it, whether she should back off because it won't develop or let herself fall in- like I say, she's a softy and always falls easily.

Just sit back and enjoy!

So did your friend and R have sex this weekend? I'm not really sure from what you wrote.

If they did, and have since spent time together, then that's a good sign that R would at least be up for a repeat performance, if not dating quite yet.

If R has dropped your friend and not contacted since they bumped uglies, then R was probably only after a one-nighter, sadly.

pocket This is where it gets particularly teeny. Last Thursday (13th) they dtd which is what's triggered all this drama then they spent the weekend together and had much of the same. This week "R" didn't text/see my friend Mon/Tue but on Wed when my friend sent a message "R" replied.

Tonight I'm having a little get together of sorts and my friend is invited- she told "R" about it who lives within walking distance to my house so suggested my friend stay the night.

Very teeny!