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help with Nokia asha 300 partners guarding it for life

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Mini05 · 16/08/2015 21:14

So told to post here as well

Ok so partner is guarding his mobile with his life!!!
I need to see what's in the messages, but it's got a lock on it!!!

I found on web that if you put *#2640# in it will tell you the lock number????

If you have one please could you try this out for me and let me know if it works and doesn't do anything to the mobile ??

Can not let him know I've been on it

Yes it dishonest, but I'm not letting a cheating partner get one over on me

OP posts:

Superexcited · 17/08/2015 07:12

If you have to go to the extent of stealing the SIM card as suggested by a pp then the relationship is pretty much over.

Instead of just asking to see his phone and him refusing you need to be honest and frank in a confrontation with him and tell him that you suspect he is cheating and you want to see his phone. If he refuses and you are still suspicious then you should tell him the relationship is over because a relationship without trust and with constant suspicion isn't a relationship worth having.

My DH has 2 phones, both are always on silent and he carries them around with him. He keeps them in silent so he doesn't forget to silence them at work (sort of job where it can't ring aloud), he keeps them with him so he can feel them vibrate. His phone habits don't make me suspicious.

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 17/08/2015 07:18

Probably not, Super - but you've only described a couple of the things that the OP is worried about, your DH doesn't disappear off for half an hour at a time and then quickly put his phone away when caught, he doesn't disappear out for 2-3h at a time and refuse to say where he's been - and I expect if you asked your DH to see his phone he would let you?

OP - your DH's behaviour is, as you know, classic cover for an affair - so if you do get into his phone, all you're going to find is evidence for this affair, I'm quite sure. Do you need the evidence? He's going to deny it anyway, even if you find it - he's going to call you mad and paranoid anyway, and say that it's not what it seems - so why not just save yourself the angst and dump him anyway because of his attitude towards you and your feelings?

Superexcited · 17/08/2015 07:27

I suppose what I was trying to say thumbwitches is that Ops partners phone habits are not unusual and are not the problem and therefore a frank confrontation is what is required rather than sneaking around hacking his phone or stealing his SIM card.

Balanced12 · 17/08/2015 07:39

I would not be happy with someone looking through my phone, I would tell them to leave - I have nothing to hide, but if there is no trust what is the point.

If you are not happy not surprised with 2-3 hours MIA then just leave.

SugarOnTop · 17/08/2015 14:17

I've tried adult conversation!.....He won't discuss

well this 'relationship' isn't going anywhere other than the direction of the bin. He doesn't wish to converse with you like a normal human being and you're sure he's up to something - is it really worth getting yourself worked up to score points with him? just dump his miserable ass and be happy.

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