Is this my problem

[mrsmalfoy]

My oh is friends with a woman who had an affair with our married friend. Oh never knew this woman before but now every time he has a problem he goes to her. I found out about six months ago that he was in contact and meeting her for a drink or two. They both said they're just friends but I played holy hell when I found out. He changed his phone number and told me he wouldn't speak to her any more. Found out Sunday he's been talking to her again again behind my back.. I'm stuck because I love him to death but he doesn't seem to think it's wrong of him to go behind my back...wwyd???'

Oh my!!!! She phoned me! The cheeky cow actually phoned me
Conversation went a bit like this:
Her: dp said I'm not to contact him any more, why should I have to lose one of my closest mates just because you're insecure?
Me: look love, you're a homwrecking slapper you've already ruined one relationship and I'll be Fucked if your destroying mine. Now kindly fuck off and find leave me and my family alone to repair the damage you've caused!!!!
She picked the wrong time to call, I'm in a shit mood today! Bitch.

Good for you. She must have the hide of a rhino to think that calling you would go down well.

I knew she was hard faced but bloody hell....wouldn't mind but she only met dp because she was shagging his mate less than a year ago, so how he's one of her best mates I don't know.

Blimey Well done.

Sorry, late to see the update but

Wow the cheek of that slapping cow!
Glad you told her to fuck off! Glad your DH backed you up.

This happened to me not too long ago with my DH confiding in some internet friend he has never met. He told me I was being controlling saying I didn't want him to have friends. She had the cheek to have a go at me calling me every filthy name.

My DH refused to get rid of her and refused to defend me against her attack. I'm ending the marriage over it.

Sorry, sorry. I'm back now, had a few days away and couldn't get on mn.
She seems to have disappeared for now so hopefully it will stay that way.
Sorry to hear about your dh, I'm glad you've decided to do what you think is best, it's a shitty situation to be in
for you