He did cocaine again last night. I don't even have to ask him, him sleeping until 1pm today told me all I needed to know. He took kids to the park and when he got back he started shouting because our son was pooing in the bath, slammed a door and behaved over the top. Shouting at me because I gave him a fig biscuit which resulted in him pooing (he was constipated) he then said he was doing everything with no help. Even though I've done it all with no help while he does what he wants. When I pointed this out he says I'm grinding him down. Trying to explain he just shouts over me. So I've sent him this to his phone seeing as he is incapable of an adult conversation.
It's pointless trying to explain anything because you talk over me and only hear your own voice. Sadly, neither of us are enjoying this relationship. The adult thing to do would be to wait until baby is born before we make further arrangements for separation. I don't want our kids living in this environment anymore. I don't wish to argue with you or have any ill feeling. Would prefer to keep this as amicable as possible so we can maintain a good relationship for the sake of our children. To make things easier, and so we both have downtime we can alternate Saturday and Sunday to do things with them. Please don't raise your voice at me or talk disrespectfully to me in front of the kids. You or I don't have he privilege of addressing each other like that anymore. How sad things have become this bad but I just want us both to be happy and it doesn't look like we can do that together. I don't want to argue anymore so please let's not. Hopefully we both know where we stand so we can progress.
I feel so scared about this now I've sent it. Have I done the right thing?